Okay so turns out after banging my head on this for a couple days I decided to finally test the cable ... Come to find out the cable I was given was not a straight through cable
... Once I determined this and replaced it with a straight through db25 cable I was able to toggle the spindle, move the y axis, and move the z axis... It still would not move the x axis when I clicked the return to home button, but hopefully that's something simple ...
Lesson learned = never assume you are given the correct hardware/cabling...
Thanks for the help Hood!!