1k to 2k drawbar tension and 3.3K release tension . . . . . this seems to me like reasonable numbers.
In my many years of using R8, I've always had to whack the loosened drawbar with a hammer to free the collet. (the drawbar wrench qualifies as a 'hammer', incidentally

) Releasing MT tapers requires an act of congress.
I would err on the side of 'way too much' force for releasing any taper, even a steep solid one.